Ski in the Tracks of Someone BETTER

If you want to improve any area of your life, use the trick my big brother taught me – ski in the tracks of someone better! I apologize for the sound… I was trying to keep up with someone better –  my big brother. 😉

Think about the major areas of your life and consider this question. “Who you are consciously following?”

Who are you following in the tracks of when it comes to the leadership area of your life? (As an example, I follow Dan Rockwell, Leadership Freak.)

Who are you following in the tracks of when it comes to the financial areas of your life?

I follow my wife, Andrea McBreen , in the health and fitness areas of my life.

How about your romantic relationships? (Hint: If you are taking relationship advice from your buddies you may want to consider skiing differently.)

mentor |ˈmenˌtôr ˈmenˌtər| noun an experienced and trusted adviser

You need a mentor in ALL areas of your life.

Actually, you already have mentors in all areas of your life; I’m asking you to consciously CHOOSE to ski in the tracks of mentors who inspire you.

Rock on, and (as always) be the best version of yourself by taking action before you are ready and focusing on your progress, not perfection!

Here’s a picture of my big brother and daughter #1.

Quote and Question: Why anger? Why so long?

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“Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were. “– Cherie Carter-Scott

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What makes us hold on to anger for so long when we know we should (must?) forgive?

 

The surprising affect your friends have on your New Year’s resolutions

“Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.” – Russian Proverb

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We are almost 8 weeks into the new year. How are your New Year’s resolutions? Many people don’t even set a New Year’s resolution, (or goals), but many do. And they typically struggle. In fact, according to a survey conducted by time management experts FranklinCovey, a full 35 percent of New Year’s resolutions are broken before the end of January of the successive year.

Why do so many people fail to change so frequently?

That’s a BIG topic, but let’s start with addressing one of the most critical factors – the power of your peer group.

Parents and teachers are keenly aware of the power of peer groups to influence behavior and, ultimately, their lives. Are you?

Try this simple exercise:

  1. Write down the names of the five people you spend the most time with on an average week.
  2. Pick one area of your life such as financial (debt, income, etc.), health (fitness level, weight, etc.), relationships (spouse, friends, family), etc.

It’s been said we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.  If you are honest – really honest – is that true in your case? Look at your top five peer list and hold them up to your level in any category; what do you find?

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If you want better results start with being very aware of your peer group. (Just like your mother told you.)

Quote and Question: Do you “Go” or “Grow” through life?

“God isn’t so concerned about delivering us from the mess we’re in, as He is in seeing us grow out of the mess we are.”
–L. Thomas Holdcroft

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Do you see “messes” in your life as a blessing so that you can become a bigger, better person or do you see “messes” in your life as something to “get out of” or “just get past”?
Or does it depend?….